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Saturday, January 10, 2015
How To Prepare Your Dating Relationship For Marriage
How To Prepare Your Dating Relationship For
Marriage
Not all dating relationships lead to marriage. Those
that do, however, need to apply the right tools early
on. We don’t ever want to arrive in a marriage not
ready to be successful in love. There’s something like
a reality check that happens when you transform
your boyfriend/girlfriend status to that of husband
and wife. People often say they didn’t expect what
usually happens after marriage. The amount of effort
required is often underestimated. Yes, things will
change; it gets real. Life happens and you have to find
a way to navigate through the ups and downs
together. We all must remember, marriage is
something you have to prepare for.
It is usually obvious when a relationship has the
stamina to move from one phase to the next. The
feelings are usually a lot deeper and both partners
can picture a future together. From this point on,
there are a few other ideas to put into practice.
Nothing hurts a marriage more than unrealistic
expectations.
Remember, dating should be fun, but it’s also an
opportunity to really get to know one another. Use
this dating time to ask questions as well as share
what really makes you tick. It’s important to
understand flaws and all. In regards to flaws, be
accepting. Also, know what you can tolerate. Think,
what if it never changes, will I be ok.
You should also look for opportunities to learn from
other couples. Even though you’re dating, It’s not too
early to join or participate in activities hosted by
marriage ministries and groups. Read resources that
teach marriage related principles.
Communicating about marriage is also important.
Uncover what you think you both might be like as
spouses and together create a vision for your
marriage. Talk future goals, and dreams.
Remember to also save a little something for
marriage. The energy, and creativity in the bedroom,
to be specific. Make sure once you’re married that
excitement and passion never dies.
Being realistic and not thinking marriage is a fairy
tale has helped quite a few couples as well. Nothing
hurts a marriage more than unrealistic expectations.
Some days will be more challenging than others, but
how you handle them is key. Put great habits into
place, starting now, by being solution focused. Know
that you’re thinking for two when you make decisions
for your relationship, and plan accordingly.
In addition to enjoying the dating portion of your
relationship, the future isn’t that far away and should
be considered once you’re with Mr. or Ms. Right.
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17-Year Old Pop Singer, Zara Larsson Proves No Man is Too Big For Condom,...Here’s How
Swedish pop singer, Zara Larsson came out straight for the men that claim they are too big to wear a condom in an instagram post on Monday, January 5.
The 17 year old who came to the spotlight for winning the 2008 season of the talent show Talang the Swedish version of Got Talent shared a photo of herself wearing a condom on her leg with the caption “To all the guys saying ‘my d1ck is too big for condoms‘ take a seat”… Photo below
The post has since seen almost 5000 comments.
I merely meant it as a funny joke,” Larsson wrote on her blog Tuesday, “Since then newspapers have been writing about what a feminist genius I am!”
“I, personally, don’t consider myself to be some kind of Holy Mary of feminism,” she continued, pointing out that she’s said dumb shit of her own in the past and has benefited extensively from being a slim, attractive white girl.
Feminist genius or not, you’ve at least got to give her the funny joke.
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Ogonis Endorsing Buhari
The four local government areas of Ogoni ethnic nationality in Rivers State on Thursday unanimously pledged their support in next month’s presidential election to the All Progressives Congress (APC) candidate, General Muhammadu Buhari.Muhammadu Buhari with Ogoni leaders
The Eleme, Tai, Gokana and Khana area declared their position during a brief ceremony to welcome General Buhari and other top APC officials to Sakpenwa, headquarters of Tai Local Government Area.
In a speech, the chairman of the Rivers State Council of Traditional Rulers, His Majesty King G. N. Gininwa, expressed appreciation to General Buhari for accepting to visit Ogoni land.
“Ogonis have cried a lot,” he told the former Head of State. “We want a redeemer and we believe you are the one.”
In another address, Senator Magnus Ngei Abe, who represents the Rivers South East Senatorial District, declared support for Buhari on behalf of the Ogoni people.
He drew attention to the impact of oil exploration and exploitation that has caused colossal degradation of Ogoniland, as a major contributor in oil production since 1958, and expressed regret that his people have been rewarded with devastated environment while their traditional occupation of fishing and farming are becoming extinct.
“Three and half years after the federal government sponsored UNEP report on Ogoni soil, no remedial effort have been made to address the damage outlined in the report despite the promise of the late President Yar’Adua’s government to implement the content unconditionally”.
He further recalled that three years ago, the government got a report that water in Ogoniland is contaminated with benzene, a known carcinogen, at levels of 900 times above the World Health Organization (WHO) guideline.
“As a deprived people, we have consistently placed in the domains of all governments, the Ogoni Bill of Rights (OBR) that seeks for equal representation of Ogonis in the affairs of the nation.
Senator Abe liked Buhari to Abraham Lincoln, stressing that the General’s era to serve and change Nigeria in line with the aspirations of its founding fathers has come, and that his people have decided to be part of history.
In a speech, the chairman of the Rivers State Council of Traditional Rulers, His Majesty King G. N. Gininwa, expressed appreciation to General Buhari for accepting to visit Ogoni land.
“Ogonis have cried a lot,” he told the former Head of State. “We want a redeemer and we believe you are the one.”
In another address, Senator Magnus Ngei Abe, who represents the Rivers South East Senatorial District, declared support for Buhari on behalf of the Ogoni people.
He drew attention to the impact of oil exploration and exploitation that has caused colossal degradation of Ogoniland, as a major contributor in oil production since 1958, and expressed regret that his people have been rewarded with devastated environment while their traditional occupation of fishing and farming are becoming extinct.
“Three and half years after the federal government sponsored UNEP report on Ogoni soil, no remedial effort have been made to address the damage outlined in the report despite the promise of the late President Yar’Adua’s government to implement the content unconditionally”.
He further recalled that three years ago, the government got a report that water in Ogoniland is contaminated with benzene, a known carcinogen, at levels of 900 times above the World Health Organization (WHO) guideline.
“As a deprived people, we have consistently placed in the domains of all governments, the Ogoni Bill of Rights (OBR) that seeks for equal representation of Ogonis in the affairs of the nation.
Senator Abe liked Buhari to Abraham Lincoln, stressing that the General’s era to serve and change Nigeria in line with the aspirations of its founding fathers has come, and that his people have decided to be part of history.
“As Ogonis, we know you have demonstrated an unimpeachable pedigree, high level of discipline, incorruptible and development-oriented leadership qualities as evident in your days in office as Head of States,” he said.
“Nigeria was for the first time, railroaded on the part of discipline and national integrity. Corruption took a back seat in national affairs and people learnt to submit to the processes of discipline which your administration enacted”.
And because Buhari considered Ogoniland to be a priority in the kick-off of his your national campaign tour, Senator Abe said the Ogonis will reciprocate the golden gesture and massively pool their votes to ensure that he emerges the President and Commander-in-Chief in May 2015.
Also speaking on the occasion, Rivers State Governor Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi who also doubles as the Director-General of Muhammadu Buhari Campaign Organisation, called on the Ogonis not to be intimidated by the use of military by the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) during the elections.
Urging the people to vote for the APC at all levels during the general elections, Amaechi, who is also the Chairman of the Nigerian Governors Forum, said, “If you vote for PDP Ogoni Kingdom will die…”
“Nigeria was for the first time, railroaded on the part of discipline and national integrity. Corruption took a back seat in national affairs and people learnt to submit to the processes of discipline which your administration enacted”.
And because Buhari considered Ogoniland to be a priority in the kick-off of his your national campaign tour, Senator Abe said the Ogonis will reciprocate the golden gesture and massively pool their votes to ensure that he emerges the President and Commander-in-Chief in May 2015.
Also speaking on the occasion, Rivers State Governor Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi who also doubles as the Director-General of Muhammadu Buhari Campaign Organisation, called on the Ogonis not to be intimidated by the use of military by the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) during the elections.
Urging the people to vote for the APC at all levels during the general elections, Amaechi, who is also the Chairman of the Nigerian Governors Forum, said, “If you vote for PDP Ogoni Kingdom will die…”
He noted that there is no strong governor coming on the side of PDP. “Those characters we have on the other side are thieves….Ask them…Nyesom Wike was my Chief of Staff, I have been speaker for eight years…show me the house that I have…speaker eight years, governor eight years…"
Also speaking on the environmental degradation of Ogoniland, Governor Amaechi said, “When UNEP came here, when they came to Nigeria to do a study of environmental crisis in Ogoniland, you people didn’t want them. True for false? You didn’t want them… forget now that the report is favourable. I addressed rallies in Ogoni to allow them to come in… and I said if you don’t trust Shell, if you don’t trust the Federal Government, don’t you trust me? And you said you trust me.
“As your governor I was running into the bush with Mike, we were chasing people, we were chasing criminals, there were attempts to kidnap (Mike) and other white people, but we maintained our desire to find solution to Ogoni crisis. And when they came up with the report, I met with the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria as governor of Rivers State. And I said to the President you see this report, please implement it for the Ogoni people, in fact….If nothing else the One billion dollars that they will invest in Ogoni soil if you don’t get anything you will get $500 million, it may not come to you as cash but as they continue to do one business or the other you also will do your own business, and you will benefit from it. Let the President tell us why he has refused to allow UNEP report to be implemented. There is no reason; because the money is not his, I hope you know”?
“The money is Shell’s. Just like Shell said they will pay 18 million dollars to Bodo. If the Federal Government say they won’t sign they won’t pay them.
“In this one all it takes is for President Goodluck Jonathan to sign them go ahead and implement. Gentlemen we would have started implementing by now. When the President was not implementing I called Shell, and I said of great importance to me as your governor is your life, that is, the life of Ogoni people, Can we give them water? And Shell agreed. We started from Eleme, Gokana had water provided by the Rivers State Government”, he said.
In his speech, the party’s National Chairman, Chief John Odigie-Oyegun described Gen. Buhari as a man who represents the very best in the human race and assured the Ogonis of better governance as from May 2015.
“The Ogoni people have put environmental issues long before now, the Ogonis have been betrayed by the federal government but thank God you have finally recognized the powers in your hands. The fortunate thing is that for the first time you are going to be talking to a man (Buhari) who represents the very best in the human race, a man who is totally incorruptible and a man whose middle name is discipline”, he said.
In his response, General Buhari assured the Ogonis of his determination to fight corruption to a standstill if he wins the presidential election.
He said: “I am extremely impressed with the address presented by Senator Abe. I assure you of social justice, so mobilize your people and make sure your vote counts. I think we have really come a long way. I assure you…a lot has been taken from your land and relatively a lot will be given back. APC government will change the situation,” he promised.
Also speaking on the environmental degradation of Ogoniland, Governor Amaechi said, “When UNEP came here, when they came to Nigeria to do a study of environmental crisis in Ogoniland, you people didn’t want them. True for false? You didn’t want them… forget now that the report is favourable. I addressed rallies in Ogoni to allow them to come in… and I said if you don’t trust Shell, if you don’t trust the Federal Government, don’t you trust me? And you said you trust me.
“As your governor I was running into the bush with Mike, we were chasing people, we were chasing criminals, there were attempts to kidnap (Mike) and other white people, but we maintained our desire to find solution to Ogoni crisis. And when they came up with the report, I met with the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria as governor of Rivers State. And I said to the President you see this report, please implement it for the Ogoni people, in fact….If nothing else the One billion dollars that they will invest in Ogoni soil if you don’t get anything you will get $500 million, it may not come to you as cash but as they continue to do one business or the other you also will do your own business, and you will benefit from it. Let the President tell us why he has refused to allow UNEP report to be implemented. There is no reason; because the money is not his, I hope you know”?
“The money is Shell’s. Just like Shell said they will pay 18 million dollars to Bodo. If the Federal Government say they won’t sign they won’t pay them.
“In this one all it takes is for President Goodluck Jonathan to sign them go ahead and implement. Gentlemen we would have started implementing by now. When the President was not implementing I called Shell, and I said of great importance to me as your governor is your life, that is, the life of Ogoni people, Can we give them water? And Shell agreed. We started from Eleme, Gokana had water provided by the Rivers State Government”, he said.
In his speech, the party’s National Chairman, Chief John Odigie-Oyegun described Gen. Buhari as a man who represents the very best in the human race and assured the Ogonis of better governance as from May 2015.
“The Ogoni people have put environmental issues long before now, the Ogonis have been betrayed by the federal government but thank God you have finally recognized the powers in your hands. The fortunate thing is that for the first time you are going to be talking to a man (Buhari) who represents the very best in the human race, a man who is totally incorruptible and a man whose middle name is discipline”, he said.
In his response, General Buhari assured the Ogonis of his determination to fight corruption to a standstill if he wins the presidential election.
He said: “I am extremely impressed with the address presented by Senator Abe. I assure you of social justice, so mobilize your people and make sure your vote counts. I think we have really come a long way. I assure you…a lot has been taken from your land and relatively a lot will be given back. APC government will change the situation,” he promised.
Source : SAHARAREPORTERS
Buhari - Why I Did Not Submit My Certificates To INEC
A former head of state and the presidential
candidate of the All Progressives Congress in the 2015 general
elections, Maj.-Gen. Muhammadu Buhari (rtd), has explained why he did
not submit his certificates and credentials to the Independent National
Electoral Commission (INEC), saying that the documents are with the
military.
This came to light yesterday during a visit by journalists to the headquarters of INEC in Abuja where it was revealed that Buhari’s academic qualifications were not on display, unlike those of other presidential candidates including that of his main rival, President Goodluck Jonathan of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).
Explaining the development in an affidavit he deposed to before an Abuja High Court, Buhari said that all his certificates were with the Secretary, Military Board. The affidavit was dated November 24, 2014 and was stamped and received by INEC on December 18, 2014.
Buhari had said in the affidavit, “I am the above-named person and deponent to this affidavit therein. All my academic qualifications documents as filled in my presidential form, President APC/001/2015, are currently with the Secretary, Military Board, as of the time of presenting this affidavit. The affidavit is made in good faith and for record purpose. The affidavit is made in good faith and for record purposes.”
This came to light yesterday during a visit by journalists to the headquarters of INEC in Abuja where it was revealed that Buhari’s academic qualifications were not on display, unlike those of other presidential candidates including that of his main rival, President Goodluck Jonathan of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).
Explaining the development in an affidavit he deposed to before an Abuja High Court, Buhari said that all his certificates were with the Secretary, Military Board. The affidavit was dated November 24, 2014 and was stamped and received by INEC on December 18, 2014.
Buhari had said in the affidavit, “I am the above-named person and deponent to this affidavit therein. All my academic qualifications documents as filled in my presidential form, President APC/001/2015, are currently with the Secretary, Military Board, as of the time of presenting this affidavit. The affidavit is made in good faith and for record purpose. The affidavit is made in good faith and for record purposes.”
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