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7 Things To Do If She’s Sleeping Over for the First Time

Whether you planned it or it came as a surprise, having a girl over can make any man anxious. Find out what you need to do to get her comfy.
So you’re finally letting her into your home. Depending on the state of your humble abode, she’s either the luckiest woman in the vicinity or someone who might start running for the hills. You, as the owner of said abode, have a responsibility to make your guest as comfortable as possible.
Not every guy is lucky enough to afford a housekeeper on call. And not every guy has the luxury of setting aside an entire day to clean up the house at the drop of a hat. That’s why we’ve come up with ways that are relatively easy and quick to execute, if you happen to suddenly find yourself expecting a house guest, while your home is in dire straits.
What to do on a planned sleepover
She may say she’ll love you no matter what, but you don’t have to show her the warzone that is your house on the first sleepover! Set aside an hour or two to make your home more inviting.

#1 Clean up . This one’s a no brainer, but where do you start if you need a quick fix? Start with the bedroom. Stuff all your junk someplace she won’t bother to look, like the laundry room or your closet or under the bed. You can worry about it later. Not sure what stuff you should prioritize? As a rule of thumb, anything on the floor and at eye level will catch her attention first, so declutter those areas first.
Then sweep the floor or quickly run a vacuum through any area you can be bothered to cover. As for the bathroom, just stash all the unsightly stuff into a cupboard or above the dresser. Scoop out the hair from the drain. And please, on behalf of all the women in the world, clean your toilet!
Last but not least, anything that is even remotely related to any of your exes, whether they’re pictures, gifts or clothes, must be stashed away in a place where your current lady love will never, ever find!

#2 Change the sheets. We’re not too fond of lying down on sheets that are covered with hell knows what bodily fluids. And even if your sheets don’t have stains, change them anyway to make sure they’re fresh and ready for a night of sweaty lovemaking. Fresh sheets always feel ten times better than week-old ones that have been marinating in your man-sweat.

#3 Hide the porn. Yes, we know you buy the occasional magazine, but we don’t need evidence of it staring us in the face as we use your bathroom.

#4 Warn the roomies. If you have roomies, the best case scenario would be to get them out of the house for the duration of your girl’s stay. There’s nothing more awkward for a girl than walking down the hall and having a strange shirtless man suddenly run into her.
If you can’t get the roomies out of the house, at least ask them to expect a visitor. Who knows, they might be nice enough to help you make your home a little more presentable.

#5 Replenish the stash. Your girl will probably already bring her own toiletries and clothes, so there’s no need to worry about that. But since it’s your home court, you’ll need to be the one to supply all the other necessary implements such as food, drinks, condoms and lube.
Nothing kills a mood faster than suddenly stopping to blame each other for the lack of condoms. So stock up on a couple of different ones and let her pick out which one she’d like you to use.

#6 Get her some entertainment. Of course, you won’t be getting it on throughout the entire night. So in the moments in between, plan something to keep both of you busy. Sure, you could always just talk and bond and cuddle and whatnot. But it still pays to be prepared.
The internet may be your savior. Just give your girl the wifi password, so she can go online when you’ve dozed off. If you don’t have a connection at home, bring out a couple of books and magazines that she might like, and keep them by the nightstand. If she’s not into that, pop a DVD and let her go on a series marathon with Suits or Game of Thrones or Breaking Bad or whatever else she might be into. You’ll have a ton more to talk about when you’ve woken up.

#7 Prepare some mood lighting. Scented candles work wonders as they provide the perfect ambient light, while masking the smell of whatever she’s better off not smelling. If it’s too much of a fire hazard, go for a dim lamp. Relying on the street lights outside might not provide you with enough light to get anything done, while using your laptop as a nightlight might prove to be too distracting.

THIRTY RULES FOR CHRISTIAN WOMEN

For every Christian home, there must be a Christian wife, mother or woman. The following are the must to do of a Christian women .

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them.(Prov 15v13)

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. (Gen 2v24)

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)

9). Never be a wasting wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex (SS 7v12

11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom.(SS 5v9)

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children(Eph 4v31)

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam 25v3)

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word.(Luke 21v16)

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. (Gal 6v9)

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork. (Gal 6v10)

21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband.(Eph 4v29)

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)

23). Does your husband like less cooked food?, try to change your cooking.(Prov 31v14)

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

God bless you.

BY. Mrs Chantal YORO

Thirty MUST Things To Do When You're Planning Your Wedding

The wedding time is one of the most important points in a person’s lifetime, and everyone envisions having a great wedding.
So you just got engaged and you’re thinking about how you’re going to plan your wedding. You’ve made the right move. Here are 30 things to do when you and your partner have agreed to marry.

1. Decide what sort of wedding you want to have and make up a budget. Some people spend all they have and even borrow to finance their wedding. It’s not advisable. Set a budget that you can fund without necessarily crossing a line. Then get to work with that.

2. Set up a planning team. That’s if you don’t prefer to hire a wedding planner. This team could comprise few of your close friends. You can brainstorm with them and they can go through all the pre-wedding stuff with you. You could really use their ideas and assistance.

3. Arrange to meet your partner’s parents and also for them to meet yours. You want to get to know your prospective in laws beforehand and you want your partner to get to know your people too.

4. Pick a wedding date. Once everyone has pitched in and the coast is clear, pick a date that you can work with. It doesn’t have to be specific to a day at first. You could pick a month for the time being and start working toward that. Then later when things are shaping up you can set a specific date.

5. Start planning your guest list. Which people are you looking to invite for your wedding? It’s time to write some names and envisage what guests you’d like to see on your special day.

6. Start looking for venues for your ceremonies. Venues get booked up often. Make enquiries, look out on time and do a shortlist of the ones you intend to consider.

7. Shop for your wedding gown. You don’t want to leave this very important part of your big day to the last minute.

8. Envision how the wedding will look like. What will you serve the guests? What type of entertainment would you like at the event? Will it be a DJ or a band? Start figuring these things out and let your planning team weigh in on that too.

9. Link up with the professionals. Ask your friends to link you up with professionals you’ll need for your wedding including the caterers, MC, the photographers and so on. Then get in touch with those you think can do the job.

10. Start drawing up a list of expenses for the wedding. You’ve checked out the venue you want to use. You’ve spoken to the people you’ll be hiring to work at your wedding. Start piecing the costs together and look it over with your team and your partner.

11. Make your bookings. You want to book with the DJ, the MC, the band and any other people you intend to hire early. You also want to book the venue for the reception. The earlier you book with the people, the better.

12. Pick wears for the wedding. Figure out what styles and colours your people will be wearing.

13. Start planning your honeymoon.

14. Go for pre-wedding counselling. Speak to an independent counsellor, not just your pastors.

15. Purchase your wedding rings.

16. Start shopping for the clothes you and your people will wear for the ceremonies.

17. Decide what type of wedding cake you’ll want and book with the designer who will make it.

18. Send out your invitations about two months ahead so your prospective guests have enough time to plan to attend.

19. Book your stylist and figure out what hairstyle you’ll rock on the big day. Also book a makeup artist and do some trials to test out stuff.

20. Apply for a marriage license. Check with the local registry.

21. Be in touch with your people. Ring your bridesmaids and groomsmen and make sure they know how things are coming along. Keep in touch with those who will be working at your wedding (caterers, MC and so on) and fine tune your arrangements with them.

22. Create a wedding program to hand out to guests.

23. Iron out reception plans with the caterer and the other professionals who will be on the ground at the reception.

24. Give ceremony venue managers a schedule of delivery and setup times plus contact numbers so that everyone’s on the same page.

25. Get your hair done and get your outfits for the big day ready. Follow up with your groomsmen and bridesmaids to do the same.

26. Make sure you’ve paid those you hired before the wedding.

27. Present parents and each other with gifts.

28. Introduce your venue manager to your best man or maid of honour for questions or problems during the reception.

29. Assign a friend or relative to be the photographer’s contact so he knows who is who.

30. Remember to thank friends, family and workers who helped to make your wedding succeed.

Ten Important Relationship Tips You Must Not Forget.

You know what the most fulfilling and complete feeling of accomplishment is? It’s being with someone even after years of ups and downs and still being able to share the rest of your life happily with them, a strong and long term relationship is an accomplishment in itself. People often forget the simplest of things when it comes to being with someone, and that’s where the downs start happening, it’s very important to reassure yourself and to do whatever you can to make your relationship that much more stronger than yesterday. This is going to be an article on ten basic relationship tips people often forget, let’s begin.

1. Forgive your past

It’s almost impossible to forget, people often say “forgive and forget” but they don’t think about what you had to go through and how impossible it is to forget and let go of the past, you can’t. but what you definitely can do is forgive the past and you’ll slowly help yourself in forgetting it. Think about your past, about the things that have had a very strong impact on your mind, think of the people involved in that impact, don’t think of them in a resentful way and forgive them. It’s not going to be easy, it’s not going to happen in one day, but it will make you feel much lighter when you finally forgive your past.

2. Apologize

When you’re in a relationship, it’s very important to throw things like “ego” and “self righteousness” out the window. If you make a mistake, directly or indirectly, save yourself and your partner the agony of another argument and just apologize. It doesn’t take much to apologize, just say you’re sorry and MEAN IT! We are all human, we are bound to make mistakes because we are just made that way, none of us are perfect. Making up for your mistakes will only tell your partner that you truly respect them enough to come clean and to accept the fact that you did something wrong.

3. Don’t pass judgement

You’re in a relationship with someone else, not with yourself. You have no idea how their past has been on them or what they had to do to get here. You can’t judge them in any way, shape or form. Give them enough space and respect to make their own decisions and then respect their decisions and enhance them. You’re in love with them, you have to make them understand why they love you so much every day. Support them in their lives, however they want to live them.

4. Say no to gossip

So they do something that you’re not okay with, are you going to talk to them about it or go talk to your friends and family about how weird your partner is? Do you want to be one of the people who can’t solve their own problems and have to spread them to the whole world before giving up? Don’t be. If you aren’t comfortable saying it to their face, you can’t be okay saying it elsewhere. Sit down and talk about things, you’re not someone who would gossip about your own life, are you?

5. Don’t forget yourself

Live life the way you want to, don’t let your relationship change it in any way. A strong and happy relationship is meant to enhance your life, not change it. Be happy with who YOU are, be content with your decisions on your own, don’t rely on your partner to make your decisions for you. I once talk about how codependency can seem cute at first but really how toxic and dangerous it is for any relationship. Live your life your way, be happy with it, and transfer that happiness and joy in your relationship and make it even stronger.

6. Be kind

Always be kind through your words and actions. You don’t have to expect people to be kind in return, that’s not the goal here, the goal here is to purify yourself as much as you can, and being kind to people can really bring a lot of happiness in your system. Be the person who finds happiness in making others smile, wholeheartedly and selflessly. If you’re kind to the world, the world will be kind to you. People will remember your acts of kindness, no matter how big or small, and you’ll feel great about yourself and the person you love and you can bring that joy into your relationship.

7. Listen

It’s amendable to speak your mind, it takes a lot of strength and guts to say what you want to and mean it, it takes that much more to really listen. Pay attention to your partner, every word, and make them understand that you’re not just another bobbing head, make them understand that you’re there for them when they need to talk to someone. When you stare into their eyes, forget everything else and just listen to their words, they’ll appreciate it more than anything else in the world because it’s not that easy for anyone to just listen, to really listen with all of your heart and will.

8. Let go of your fears

The biggest fear people face in relationships is the fear of trust, the sheer fact that you will be giving your heart and soul to someone again, what if they don’t know your worth, what if they won’t be able to do justice to the love you give them, all of these questions arise when you’ve had a bad relationship in the past, and we all have had bad relationships in the past. The easiest way to fight your fears is to fight them with the positivity of your relationship, look at all of the good things happening to you because of your partner, look at how happy you are with them, and tell your fears to get out because they can’t stay anymore!

9.Expect less, do more

I follow this one more than others, I try to be as selfless as I can be when it comes to love. She sometimes tells me that she can never amount to how loving and caring I am because I do a bit too much, I tell her she doesn’t need to amount to me. We are all different people, we have different ways of care and different ways of showing them and expressing our feelings. The more selfless you become, the happier you’ll be. I’m not asking you to expect nothing, that’s just unnatural, just don’t expect more than you give. You’ll always get a lot more in return.

10. Don’t drag what shouldn’t be dragged

I always talk about how you need to always remember who you are and what your worth in this world is. If you’re with someone who doesn’t respect you, your intelligence, your decisions, your life or anything that you love, you need to call this one off and move on. When a relationship ends, it’s obviously very hurtful, but when a bad relationship ends, it’s for the best because you suffer a little pain today to avoid a disaster tomorrow. Know your worth, because you’re important.

Six things you should tell you spouse every day

Keeping a happy and healthy relationship isn’t a walk in the park. There are things you need to say and do on a daily basis to keep the relationship intact. The under listed are what you need to say to your partner day in day out .

1. I Want To Be With You always

Words make a lot of things beautiful in a relationship, by being sweet with your partner and opening up to Them, you make them feel good about the decision they made. Even if you’ve been with them for years, Tell them you want to be with them, it makes them smile and reassures your love for them and makes them Know you’re in it for the long run.

2. I Love You

The three magical words. Make it a daily habit to tell your partner you love them, don’t think just because they Know it already you shouldn’t say it, say it everyday. It makes them happy and lets them know you still have the Same strong feelings for them that you did the first day of your relationship and you can still fight the world for Them and you’re always there for them. Say “I Love You”, because you do.

3. You Are Hot

Physical attraction isn’t the most important factor of any relationship but it’s up there and is necessary for Relationships to grow and become strong. When you tell your partner they’re hot, they feel good about Themselves, they feel confident and they feel amazing the whole day. Compliment them on the smallest Of things. Tell them they’re beautiful or handsome, tell them they smell great, tell them their smile is the Cutest, words can move mountains!

4. I Love It When You…

Flatter them and compliment them on the smallest of things. It lets them know you still pay attention to everything They do and you still love them for who they are. Tell them they look great, they smell great, tell them you love Their cooking, just anything you can think of that can make them happy and smile and make them love you more And more each day.

5. You Mean The World To Me

Nothing puts a bigger smile on your partner’s face than knowing they mean everything to you. “You mean the World to me” is definitively one of the sweetest things you can say to your partner. And make sure you say it Like you mean it. Knowing that no one else in the world makes you happier or makes your life better is an Awesome thing to hear everyday. Make it a daily occurrence.

6. I Respect You

Respect is a very important and mutual requirement for every relationship. By telling them you respect them, You’re letting them know that they always have a supportive partner and a person who is proud of them even At their smallest of achievements. Make the love grow and be the sweetest.

10 Things You Should Stop Doing In Bed.

Putting on a pretense.

Stop faking orgasms and stop pretending to like stuff you don’t like.
If you’re with partners who expect you to fake it to stroke their ego, you shouldn’t be shagging them; if you’re faking because the sex is terrible, stop having that kind of sex; and if you’re pretending to be into stuff you’re not because you think you’re expected to act a certain way, then you’re only doing yourself a disservice.
You’ll never figure out what you really like if you’re too busy pretending to like what you think someone else likes.

Not saying what you need

Unless you’re literally banging a mind reader, you need to tell your guy what you like and what you want. Expecting him to know exactly what works for you – and then to do exactly what works for you perfectly first time – is setting yourself up for disappointment. Saying that, you don’t need to be a drill sergeant about it (unless that’s the play, nudge nudge).
There’s a wide line between saying what you like and being cruel and critical of your lover’s moves, so it should be easy to figure it out.

Acting out a role.

Sometimes people get so caught up in acting out a role that they forget to be present. Roles could include being a shy flower, being the all-knowing sex kitten, the pushy dominant, the romantic love-maker… Save these one-man shows for an actual role-playing session.
Rather use all that energy for being emotionally available and open to the sex you’re having.

Comparing.

There is no bigger buzz kill than comparing. That includes comparing yourself to their previous lovers, or comparing your present lover to your previous ones. Each combination of people will create a new and unique experience.
Your only job is to enjoy the combination you and your present partner make.

Signing out.

Sure, your brain is your biggest sex organ, but it’s also the biggest shot of Novocaine to your genitals if it’s full of issues. Some people who have gone through trauma around sex, love and intimacy might ‘switch off’ during sex, ‘lying back and thinking of England’ while he ‘gets it over with’.
If this is something you can relate to, you need to ask questions about why you’re getting Unclad.

Over Thinking.

This is that hyper ‘there-ness’ that keeps you from letting go and feeling into sensation and enjoying the moment. It’s over thinking your every move and every moment – ‘Is this right?’, ‘Is it working?’, ‘Am I doing ok?’, ‘Do I look ok?’, ‘What is he thinking?’ etc etc. In a way, it’s a form of signing out from the intimate moment in that your constant need to control the situation means you don’t have to actually be emotionally available to the experience.

The minute your brain starts making buzzing noises, take a moment to slow down the sex and come back to the moment by focusing on the physical sensations you’re enjoying.
Letting your body issues get in the way of your body having fun
Ever said you don’t want to try a position because of how you think you’ll look in it? Stop that. Life is too short and your booty too fine not to have as much fun with it as you possibly can. If you are with someone who is trying to make you feel crappy for how your body looks, you shouldn’t be letting them get Unclad with it.
Inhibition is a huge passion-killer – for you.

Being a passive passenger.

You co-create your sex life culture with your partner, so take an active role in the process. Initiate sex, use your imagination, move your body
Getting too comfortable with comfortable.
This is a major shout-out to long-term relationships. Yes, you can’t be Mata Hari 24/7 and sometimes you need to chill out in your jammies and fluffy slippers. But I would argue that your inner sex goddess isn’t going to be getting herself into a feverish pitch of lust covered head to toe in flannel.
I know that the conversation around this is usually angled around what is good ‘for him’, but if you want to access your sexy for anyone, you can’t lose touch of it for yourself. Get sensual for you, get sexy for you

BY  ADEOBA